So H has backslides too....

TAL, a lot of the journey of DBing is about learning to be happy for yourself, by yourself. That's the whole GALing/PMAing side of it. It's not that you WANT to be alone - it's that you learn not to hang on every word of another person for your own joy - particularly when that other person is sick/confused/MLCing.

Here's a challenge for you: The next time something like this happens, I want you to say to yourself "It's a shame H is being such a glum loser. Oh well - that is HIS problem and I am not going to let it ruin my day!" Then go out with your mom (or whoever is handy) and have a FANTASTIC day! (I know this firsthand is not easy - but trust me, once you start doing it - it gets much easiER!)


Thread #10
22 year M, MLC, Piecing since 1/07
Goal: Live with confidence & enthusiasm!