Well, he was right about one thing, you are stronger than you think.
OK, on most other counts, he's turned into a mean @!#$^@#$^, and I can't think of much nice to say about him!
From the beginning, there's a chance that the child isn't his, I imagine, though it certainly seems possible that it is. You have to talk to a lawyer to find out what the possibilites are if it is his. And you have to protect yourself, and your kids.
Whatever happens don't let him manipulate you. He is alrady trying, don't go for it! He is going to try to play the "poor me" card. All of that said, you can't squeeze blood from a turnip, you need legal advice soon, I think, to find out where this could go.
