I'm outta the woodwork - although IC is currently in intensive care so is safe for the moment!!!! He is recovering nicely though from his lung op Red.
I just wanted you to know that I felt exactly the same after my H slept with someone else in our M. I grieve the exclusivity having been lost all the time. However, renewing our wedding vows really did help. We did it with just us and the children there - it was very low key and our minister knew exactly why we were doing it.
I feel that we were married for almost 20 years, and now we have started a 'new' marriage- that one started in 2006 when we renewed our vows. On paper we have been married continually....but in my mind there was a break. Does that make sense? And even though I can go through low cycles....it does keep getting better and better
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
