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I'm so scared to send him a messgae...if he says no I'll be so disappointed \:\(


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((((((((((Jen))))))))))

If he doesn't want to go it is HIS loss! He is missing out on a wonderful person....

I think he is starting to see that, but it is still unclear to him. Don't let his DAMness stop you from enjoying your life!

I know lots of people that would like to go with you!

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Thanks Jeff. I'll ask him now.


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You can do it, Jen!

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((((Jen)))))

Send the message and ask but do it with no expectations- then no disappointment. It'll be a great bonus if he says yes!!

You sound great!

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He's online so I sent him this meaage "What are we going to do about the movie" about 5 minutes ago. He hasn't responded yet.


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Hey Lisa, Thanks. If he says no then I'm going out so he can see that I didn't wait around for him.


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Good plan!! \:\)

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He's at the club so it might take a bit to respond especially if he's thinking about what to say \:\)


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Wow, I get really busy at work one day and miss a whole ton of stuff!!! Jen, I understand your feelings. Maybe it is a little overwhelming for him right now, and he is doing the proverbial step back because he needs to think. It hurts, and it is hard, but you have to let him do it. He continues to come back, but remember, he was gung ho to file for the divorce, and then all of a sudden things started to change. He has got to be having conflicting emotions right now, so let him take his step and evaluate the sitch.

I agree, ask if he still wants to go, and be prepared for either answer. But ACT as if...

(((Jen)))

Coach...if you want to talk on my thread, please feel free!!!


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

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