....if it is light and upbeat and presented with a PMA, then that is good. Of course R talk is completely out. I would initially have any contact on a different focus....children
I guess I am expecting too much. Because that's all the convos revolve around - the kids. From a month ago until now I am in a much better place in my head. Our MC told me how surprised she was about how I have handled things. So I guess the little things are getting noticed, I just want things to move along faster. I know I don't control the tempo. Just aggravated at the progress.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
Remember no expectations! You can have all the hope in the world but no expectations. Baby steps are talked about here and also the need to remember that this is not a quick sprint but a 26 mile marathon. Take it easy, realx and breathe.
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
Read lolas thread, you women are out of control over here!
I am breathing just cycling thru the emotions a little.
Do I want to know what the VH Rockettes are?
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
XH and I had been planned on going to the movie tonight (I have the tickets) but after yet another cheeseless tunnel last night he didn't want to go. We've been communicating great today. I was asked to go out with some friends at 7pm. So my options are and I would like you guys to tell me your opinions
1) Ask him about the movie a. if he says yes then I wait for him b. If he says yes I go with friends and meet him at 9 c. If he says no I tell him I'm going out 2) Don't ask him and go with friends (F the movie) 3) Don't ask him and wait til they get home for him to suggest
Note that number 1 has 3 smaller options.
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
He's at the club with D. After they leave he has to drop off some paperwork and then he was coming here with D. If we go to the movie then D has to stay with his parents which would need to be settled soon.
We've been getting along great but my XH is stubborn so he might stick to his guns and not want to go. Should I send him a message and ask him?
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
