I am working on me. That's where SC has helped. I am alot like her and then her WAS perspective is invaluable.

I'll work on a list and post it. The board will keep me in check.
Where is lolas thread?

M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12
Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.