How often do you communicate with her and what types of things do you talk about?
Since she started back to work, Asst Princ, and the kids back in school its just business related: kids, money, coordinating stuff. We were going to MC until three weeks ago then she became too busy to find time to go. We might exchange a e-mail or two during the day and I will call her in the evening. But nothing "real." I have all the DAM qualities that helped me get here so I know not to fix her. She filed D papers and now the clock is ticking. Right now we are communicating about custody. I have been communicating with Cookie alot, she has been a godsend to me. I want to be in the friendship stage, feel a lot of hostility still directed back at me (stage -1). So I am trying to melt a iceberg with a pack of wet matches. Take all the help I can get.
Last edited by Coach; 08/21/0807:55 PM.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
