I am a country guy, although its a good thing that I love rock as well since my life has turned into a country song.
Ain't that the truth. I like some country--older stuff like Johnny Cash, and Poncho and Lefty (Merle Haggard and Willy Nelson) cause that was what my H was into. Johnny Cash might have some good stuff to run to, or more like gallop to ; ), like "Jackson":
maybe this question is better for the infaildetly fourm but I am not sure what to do with my feelings. I don't know for sure anything. All I have is strong cirmenstancal evidance. My fear of this in the past has been a problem for her and may have just crated more problems. I am so trapped between the two sides of mind. I want to trust her and just detach and leave her to her self but I can't shake the tears or sickness in my stomach.
Yeah, it sucks. I still feel sick to my stomach sometimes, but my overall attitude is that our old R is over and if my H dates anyone else now, it's not really any different than someone he dated before we met. I know you and your W were HS sweethearts, so it might be more of a challenge to think of it that way, but I've found that it erases a lot of my jealousy and hurt feelings to remember that we aren't together right now. We're "broken up". Does that make sense?
It is in the shelter of each other that people live.--Irish proverb