I did use the truth dart. I agreed with her that trading the car was the only way to do it. That is pretty much the reality of the situation right now. It is something that she is going to have to deal with.

I do think at this point it is time to start putting up the boundaries. If this keeps up the way it is going right now I really won't be in a good place to work on our M, if it happens. So far I have done things out of love for her. It seems that things will start slipping towards anger and resentment within myself if I don't change things for my own sake. I do see that on the horizon. That will certainly end it all.

So I have to go down the road you recommend soon. It seems to me that has more of a chance of working then the way things are going. Thanks for all the help.

Last edited by yenko69; 08/21/08 07:38 PM.
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