Baggy - yes, the phases - YES....we wish and hope for people to realize it is a process, not a bandaid.
There is no quick fix, but there is certainly *treatment* and *recovery*.
The only quick fix about it is the moment people decide and resolve for themselves to begin phase one. There is a quick fix in that decision. It fixes a lot, actually. It is the moment we go from being victims to being empowered.
