I had some of that new KY His and Hers that's all over TV. It was fun
Haha. I've been thinking to buy some of that!
Originally Posted By: jon2911
- after the R talk, I told her that it seems like she's just trying to hurt me, and sabotage our time together. She said "yes, I try to hurt you, because I can tell you're changing and don't want you to stop". First indication I've had that she can see the changes.
Hmm, great that she sees the changes and wants them to continue. VERY BAD that she thinks she has to push you in order for you to continue them! That will NOT work in the long run! What can you do to reassure her with actions they will continue - i.e. that the changes are for YOU and you will do them regardless of what she does?
Also, how can you get her to ASK for what she wants instead of pushing/prodding/nagging/arguing?
Other than that, sounds like a good weekend. Definite progress I think. (((Jon)))
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
