I'm going to respectfully disagree and tell you once again, in case you forgot...SHE'S ENGAGED to someone else. What you are is the OM, and we all know that's not good. Do I think she loves you? You bet. Do I think you're better than the fiance? WAY better. BUT...she is planning a life with someone else right now. If she wants you back, calling you baby, taking care of her, etc...she needs to make a final decision, and end things with fiance...or end things with you. She doesn't get both of you. And, you deserve better than seconds. I think it's time for you to tell her the game is over. You are not there for her anymore...she's chosen someone else. It isn't fair for THEIR relationship that she carries on a EA and PA with you. Like it or not...you are the affair. You deserve better. She chose this...let her live with it. I'll bet dollars to donuts she knows she making a poor choice, and eventually will find her way back.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
