Thanks for the warm welcome DQ!

I'm still blushing about the sexy comment. :-) Besides you don't want to get me started about you and sexy....:-)) Sorry guys..inside joke there.

Yes I have a read a few of Bagheera's posts and got the sense he was in a similar place as I. True, I have not read Michelle's books...Yet! I have read almost all of the Mars/Venus books and they have really helped me but I'm a life long learner so in time I'll get to Michelle's books. For some crazy reason I decided to go back to school for my PhD and time is a precious commodity these days. With a career, family and a strong focus on my marrige, time is a luxuary I dont get to enjoy enough.

Its all about being the best man, husband and father that I can possibly be. It is about giving 110% instead of just what I thought was enough to get by. It's a different mind set. Now, I'm going to take 5 minutes to scrible a short love note to my wife so I can put it into her car tommorow moring before she goes out. I have found that the little things have gradully warmed her heart and awakened her feelings again. A little bit of effort can go a long way.

Greetings all!


M: 50, W: 48
M: 26 yrs
S:25, D:24, S:20, D:19
Hard at work on my marriage everyday! There is hope, there is life, it is the only life we have....

Vorlon