W: GM, I am planning on picking up D13 at 12:45 to reg 4 school today and then taking D17 to look at her senior pics
Me: Great! Thank you for handling those things, have a good time wit the girls.
W: D13 is going to spend sat night at patricia's, she will pick up D13 sat am i will bring her back in the eve on sunday
Me: Yes, D13 told me. Thanks
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Her friend lives an hour away. I didn't offer to give her the Prius to save gas money. She'll need to ask for that.
On the suggestion of another poster I got the book "No more Mr. Nice Guy". I like it a lot. One of the things it pushes is no more approval seeking. I have been seeking W's approval for way too long.