Sandy,

Here's some (((hugs))) for you. I can relate to the impact on the kids. The WS seem to think the kids "will be fine" - BULL$HIT!

First and foremost (I have heard this from many, including Puppy), take care of you and your kids. That is the immediate concern.

And by all means, come here for support. The folks here are angels...

LIS

M45
WW 43
D17/S14/D11

ILYB Jan 08
PA Conf Feb 08
OMW / OM contacted
S Jan / 09

No one ever has, or ever will, escape the consequences of their actions.