Everyone, this is Vorlon. Vorlon, this is everyone.
As Vorlon said, I know him from the Mars/Venus message board. He is very wise and kind and most of all, loves his wife.
I wonder if you married guys know that MARRIED GUYS WHO LOVE THEIR WIVES ARE VERY SEXY!
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Vorlon has also helped me out by being a confidante at different times, because I don't share day-by-day details about my relationship on the message boards...(specifically when my man and I are fighting, etc)...but I of course do need help and support. So Vorlon has really been there for me that way several times.
V - Bagheera has a somewhat similar situation and timeline to yours. If you have seen his 4 phases thread, I was thinking of you when I read it. Have you read it? It seems that around the same time, you both decided to take charge of yourselves as men and husbands, and to put forth 100% effort into your marriages, and you are both now finally seeing results.
I hope V will stick around and give us his perspective on things here and there. I don't think he has read any of Michelle's books but he certainly has been through the ups and downs of marriage....I think he's finally in the home stretch now.