Yeah, I know what you mean. I couldn't ever find anyone to go with me either. A while back, a friend of my brother's split from his fiance. My bro told him to get ahold of me and we could go to the gym to get his mind off of it. He was all into it at first, but never did show up. I was hoping he would, becuase he was doing nothing but drinking everynight, and I know the gym helped me a lot more than drinking ever did.
The best part is that after a few short months, you start to look and feel awesome, and everyone notices. I remember I went to the hospitial when my XSIL's daughter (x-neice, I guess) had her baby. My XSIL, couldn't shut up about how good I looked, and how she kept telling my XW that.
I am getting that from everywhere, and I see pics from me in Hawaii in January, and man i was a beached whale! It helps that I don't really drink anymore. Although if you talk to my W who has no clue, i drink all weekend long every weekend LMFAO..
I really could care less if anyone actually joins me, i accomplish more and am not distracted(well there are some pretty nice visuals there)..
My diet has changed .. now that i am down to a 32 1/2 haha.. i am not going back.