my list of positives, need this for myself

h is interested in going to counseling
h is talking about real feelings with me
h has said that there will be no A's in the future
h is committed to our kids and wants what is best for them
h has admitted to some of my good qualities
h is obviously struggling with this, if he felt good about what he was feeling he would be relieved not struggling
h understands the importance of my finishing school
h recognizes the changes I have made
h feels that the A was a mistake
h says openly that we have a lot of fun together
so far the things h has discussed in counseling aren't that big, of course that is my opinion, but maybe as the mother ship moves off they will get smaller to h too
h feels a spiritual source in his life again
I am a work in progress
I am committed to working on this
I know I can be alright regardless
I am strong I can do this
I have plenty of positive qualities
I have learned from my mistakes
I know there are positive changes in store for me
I can be brave
I will be happy I will


Me 41
H 42
DD 11
DS 8
M 18
bomb 8/3/06
separating 9/18/08