This is my first time in this forum.... I did have a post in newcomers and was hoping my next would be in piecing..... not so lucky.

My husband has been having an affair...found out yesterday it has been much longer thatn I thought..(with my ex best friend )for over a year.

He had moved home 10 days ago to work on us...said he loved me.

Calls me yesterday and said he again has faked everything..no more lies ..he really does love her..and we are done.

OMG... the last 10 days have been really great... this has been going on since March..but I feel like I am back at day 1.

We bought airline tickets to bring all three kids with us next week to Chicago to see his family.
He wanted to show everyone he was committed.

Now, I am taking the kids by myself.

Where do I go from here.... I am hurt, devistated, and scared.

Do I give up the DB thing...cuz it sounds like he loves her... I would be wasting my time.

I talked and texted him last night... nothing today....

Please help!

Sandy

Last edited by san; 08/21/08 02:30 PM.
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