Lodo, I have to admit, I never heard of Madeleine Peyroux before, but after listening to some of her songs online, I will be looking to purchase some of her albums soon. Her voice is like honey.
That is pretty weird to look at. BTW... Have you listened to the lyrics to Dylan's Blood on the Tracks album lately? It is his divorce album. A lot of those songs hit home hard now when I hear them - just like the song in your link. But yet I still really like the album. Kerry must resist sad love songs and listen to more upbeat stuff like this more:
Lodo, I have to admit, I never heard of Madeleine Peyroux before, but after listening to some of her songs online, I will be looking to purchase some of her albums soon. Her voice is like honey.
She came last year for a concert in Athens. Missed her. Was too busy overanalysing stbxH's behaviour, too busy to enjoy myself... K
Okay, I know I'm vacillating all over the place. Now I've decided not to write the letter. I mean, my W is getting ready to go spend 3 weeks with OM - not sure if she's still involved or not, but still.
I was going to write it for closure, but realistically, if I write her a letter and don't hear anything back, I don't think I'm far enough along not to be hurt by that. I know I'll come across as rude if I stop answering her calls and emails, but should I be that worried about whether she thinks I'm rude or not? I don't think so.
So the letter is off again. I think I can find closure by dropping her from my life.
Maybe the next time she calls, because we all know she will, just as calmly as possible say,"I can't do this anymore. I am sorry but this has been very painful for me and I really just need to step back and take care of myself."
Just an idea. You have shown a lot of strength and I know you are going to get through this.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
Just read your sitch. You're right, you don't owe it to her to act like close friends at this point, that's so unfair to you. Also, LRT and 'going dark' can only help your detachment further... I agree with Kat, know that you will get through this!
Me 40 H 39 2nd M- 6 months No kids Previous D, 1st M DBer from 2003
