JUST USED LRT-WHAT DO I DO NOW???

[Sanderika]

Thank you snodderly,

I will follow all of the advice here.

I am afraid though what will happen when my L sends my H a letter demanding reinstatement of my salary-retroactive to the date he stopped. She is going to offer him a choice to pay me to stay away or to pay me to come back to the office. She is consulting with a corporate labor attorney as to the consequences that will be stated in the letter if H doesn't do either one. This is really scary to me.

I am trying desperately to think of this as a business arrangement and not a marriage anymore. I still love him to pieces but what he is doing is not healthy for the marriage, myself or my S12. I will probably inform him in advance of the letter that it is coming so he can have the opportunity to say his thoughts to me. I will never show him anger again. If he blows up I will just sit quietly.

I will hold fast on not filing. Not Filing may not be an option for me once the letter goes out. What do you think??

I am going ahead with some work on my house, they start today. I am quite sad about it though. I haven't had someone to bounce ideas off of and discuss all the ins and outs of it all. I am having windows and siding replaced. H was all for it back in the spring before he kicked me out of the company. Who knows what he will think now. Maybe he was all for it because he thinks he is going to get the house. He won't have to worry about it down the road. I am feeling very b***hy today. Contractors didn't show up until 8:47am. Not impressed.

I haven't posted much because I am out of sorts. I am nervous, sad and deep in thought trying to cope with this.

Thank you for your friendship and advice.

Sanderika