He has not been around the house to hang out with them in over a month. I have been so upbeat, friendly, nice, etc with him. He is basing this off of the old me and he said that he doesn't know why I have not called him and suggested him coming over to be with the girls.
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I know you invited him once and he had plans....perhaps another invitation after this statement might be nice. Nothing pressuring....perhaps even on neutral ground (see if he wants to meet y'all at the park or something like that, or invite him over to watch a movie with the kids.....mine loved the movie ET)
Basically change tacts a little bit. What you have been doing hasn't necessarily pushed him away, but it sounds like he feels like he needs to be invited back into his home to visit.
TwinDad Me 39, W 36, M 11 W - MLC, WAW???? 2 Kids B/G 3 YRS Old Start of the Long and Bumpy Road..... On the verge of piecing.....a new beginning
