Hey Bridge, so Jeff gets the ladies, & you get the guys huh ?
Nice to have you back. I missed you !!!
Hugs
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.
Sorry Bridge did not mean to get down on your H. I misunderstood how the vacation went. And I know the both of you cannot fix everything in one week but what I meant was he had a huge oportunity to put his best foot forward and I tought from what you posted that it was the same old, same old thats all.
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I apologize for the kite flying comment. I don't know anything about it and should not have made the comment.
Tim, No need to apologize.. you put to words somethings I know I have thought & felt over the months!! Just not in that specific situation. I guess I had no exepectation of either of his feet being put forward at all, just not using them to kick
Which he did not and that is a good thing. Trust is rebuilt in little ways. The same old, same old probably was more about my feelings of the situation and I know I need to reframe that. After dealing with my sadness about my S18 leaving for college in Counseling next week, that will need to be the topic I think.
Please don't feel badly about your post, I feel your support & concern & appreciate it & your words very much!!
thanks & peace Bridge
Divorced 03/2010 Mom to two amazing kids
Taking the road less traveled because those encountered on the way may be just as unique.
