Tim, No need to apologize.. you put to words somethings I know I have thought & felt over the months!! Just not in that specific situation. I guess I had no exepectation of either of his feet being put forward at all, just not using them to kick
Which he did not and that is a good thing. Trust is rebuilt in little ways. The same old, same old probably was more about my feelings of the situation and I know I need to reframe that. After dealing with my sadness about my S18 leaving for college in Counseling next week, that will need to be the topic I think.
Please don't feel badly about your post, I feel your support & concern & appreciate it & your words very much!!
thanks & peace Bridge
Divorced 03/2010 Mom to two amazing kids
Taking the road less traveled because those encountered on the way may be just as unique.