Good point with the respect and guilt thing. How can you love someone you are feeling guilty about ????
It might be once they have fallen out of love that's it. Sort of thought from the begining we wouldn't be ever getting back together but there was a slim chance of beginning all over again if you know what i mean.
What reasons did your w give and what changes has she noticed ?
Must admit when i'm around w i don't feel that confident and i'm a really confident person. I just feels she always has the advantage and i'm a bit of a puppet around her. Hard to explain but i know it's not an attractive look.
Reckon things have to get all the way to the bottom before they can start rising.
I read somewhere w's hve to feel right in themselves before the can think about retarting R - makes sense.
check my thread in WAW - there is a post there about the psycology of ilybnilwy - makes a lot of sense.
