ROOT,

you said I can't DB while not having patience. could you define, in your own terms, what DB exactly is ? other than just going out and pretending life is awesome, yet when the situation arises, being civil to your spouse ? sometimes the way she acts I feel (stupidly) she is reaching out to me, but I won't dare say I love you or I miss you or anything. I know those are no-no's. I always have the urge to burn her a cd of some of our favorite songs or send her flowers but I know those are against "the rules" too. I'm stuck. I can't move on while I still love her.

Last edited by badcompany; 08/21/08 06:34 AM.

M 31 W 26
M 6
S 6 S 3
Separated 6/2008
Back together 10/2008
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