My w recently told me she could "feel" that i had changed - doesen't seem to dent her in any way. She recently said it was cruel joke that i had changed but it was too late.
You are killing me. My W said the same thing multiple times. It's how I know she noticed my changes.
Really now I think my biggest obstical is her own guilt. That and the fact that once you decide that you can walk all over someone it's really hard to regain respect for them.
I'm still giving it a shot though...I love her even if though I don't want her back the way she is now. On some level I've always felt that time was on my side and still do. I really hate watching things get worse though. One day at a time...
Me:34 W:31 d's 5 & 10 M: 5 years, T: 8, Bomb1 3/8/08,#2:3/28/08 Asked 4 D:4/19/08, discovered PA 5/8/08,W moved out 6/30/08 W pregnant by OM: 2/17/08