nlt--you have had lots of shocks in your life in less than a years time. it will take awhile for you to be able to let go somewhat. it is not an overnight process. i know you will get thru it, one day at a time.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Yes, I'll get thru with God's help & everyone on here!
I've been reading what you sent about standing after remarriage. I will keep praying but I'm going to try to get to the point of letting go & letting God. I'm really working on that! Some say I should give up but I'm not exactly ready to do that just yet.
When I first began this journey three years ago, I went to my pastors and they said I had two choices: standing or divorce. I chose the harder of the two. They also told me that I must let it go and allow God to do His work. I knew that but I kept taking one step forward, two steps back because I just could not give up not doing something myself. It truly backfired and it took me awhile, but I learned to let God deal with all of this.
It takes awhile to get to that point of letting go and allowing God to do his work.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Thank you SF! It is hard to let go & let God. Right now there is nothing I can do but pray. Although I do keep wondering & worrying about it but I think I'm some better.
