Yeah i do the - interaction with w fantasy - and yeah know nothing will work.
That lack of emotional support is a huge blow to me as well. We had bought a business with a start date 2 weeks after the bomb. So i'd resigned from my job etc etc and starting a new business. She could not have chosen a worse time
My w recently told me she could "feel" that i had changed - doesen't seem to dent her in any way. She recently said it was cruel joke that i had changed but it was too late.
Just no getting through to her.
Yoe just have to keep with what you re doing.
Read my thread - had a funny w experience this morning