Not too much time, but had to comment on the possible craziness of your W's life, with OM/OM's W...who knows!!! Isn't it sooo crazy that there is soooo much drama out there and aren't you happy you aren't a part of it!? One night H woke me up (months ago), to get OW's H's cell phone number, my H had pictures of OW (who H had broken up with) flirting and kissing another guy. I looked at H and said, "Its 1am, and you woke me for THIS? Its not even my drama" and I turned around and went to bed.
The point is, let it lie. Let the drama continue to NOT affect you (as long as sons aren't exposed).
