Trusting you did good with the friend call. I am sure your h meant no disrespect. I am sure his intention was only to offer you help in this difficult time.

If he didn't care, he would not have said anything.

Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"