I got a call from her today. She called me while on her way to the dentist. Said she has an infected molar, and the dentist wants to do a root canal. She came home a bit "loopy" from the vicodin and we ended up having a great night together.

We watched a video of me grappling, and she just kept opening up conversations, so I very calmly went along with it. I know that the medicine has a tendancy to make you very comfortable, so I took total advantage of her "euphoric state" and we ended up watching an old video of our D's 1st birthday. She told me to put it on, and then she wanted to re-watch my ju-jitzu video...I think she was kinda turned on by seeing me in a tight rash guard or something. If not, then I'll never turn her on because I have managed at the age of 31 to be in the best physical shape of my entire life.

Anyway, I know by listening to the vet's here that this is nothing but a baby step, and I really haven't gotten my hopes up by this. Tommorrow is another day, and I'll continue to stay the course. Thanks to all who have responded and helped me thus far.... Semper-fi!


Me: 31
W: 34
D: 7

Together: 13 yrs.
Married: 7/19/97 :11 yrs

Bomb: 3/07
1st separation: 3/07
Back together: 4/07
Best 6 months of our life 4/07-2/08
2nd bomb: 3/08
separated again: 5/08
Moved back in against her wishes: 8/3/08