Where do I go from here? pt. 2

[cagzmom]

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how did i get through it?? i didn't !HA!! i am still in it just like you (read my latest post).

this is the hardest part. you helped him get where he is. find a new lawyer -- they are way to expensive for you not to feel like you are being helped!! what state do you live in?

remember my friend we are suppose to start empowering ourselves!! what are you doing FOR YOU to make YOU stronger even without HIM??!! What are you doing for you - looking into classes? picking up a part time job? what .... see the one thing I can tell you for SURE is that the LESS FINANCIALLY dependent i became on x the better I have become. and let me tell you -- after tonight holy cow!! he is in bigger financial woes than i knew!! he owes taxes, for a boat he had repo'd and he got sued...he is like a good 30K in debt -- plus some to me. He is not sitting pretty..me? i am poor- but i dont have to have him to support me. right now he isn't paying..remember? and well God is providing. It is not pretty but He keeps coming through for me!! =)

I know you have depended on him financially and you should end up ok...but you will probably have to get a job... i know ...not what you pictured for you and your family...BELIEVE ME I KNOW!!! none of this is what we pictured..none of it!!

hugs my friend.