Isn't it odd.. they can say one thing, when called on it, say you were all wrong in how you understood it. Have you noticed that pattern?
Regardless of what I write to him, he always says that he doesn't understand what I'm saying, what my meaning is. Sometimes it's true.. but usually when I don't understand what he is saying!
Right now is chiaroscuro.. the play of light and dark. The light is the newfound knowledge and awareness you have.. the dark is the old patterns in which you've responded to him. The dark is hypnotic, where you feel most comfortable because he is there with you. The light is being able to see yourself as the brilliant woman you are, confident with boundaries, expectations of what you want need in a relationship.
You go.. Ms. Imp... No need to kiss his booboo's. They're of his own making.