I don't have much time to comment right now (and don't have a new laptop yet, so can't get caught up while at my new place) but just wanted to let you know how much I admire you.
I always love reading your insights (even more than your fairy tales!) - to me these posts show your true brilliance more than anything.
Love, love, love R
M: 37 H: 36 Married: Aug 13, 2004 Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008 Reconciled: September 2008 Current: Ambivalence