I called H about mower and checks and stuff. We got that all discussed and I told him about call from L today. He was relieved. He said now maybe he can stop feeling like sh*t! He said it was him that put me there and he was sorry. I said no you didn't well you did but I am my own person and I did what I did on my own. He said "no my fault and I would have done the same damb thing only probably worse".
Any way we talked about his work. My work. (he actually asked how it was) We talked about investing his 401 into this new company he is working for. We talked about how we both have thought about going to church. We talked about alot of stuff.
My question is this... We talked a little about OW. He said he has not talked to her. "well I guess she called the other night and left a VM that it was her D's B-day, so he called her to wish her a happy B-day" I said " what, you called HER D?" "ya" I said, "oh H, you missed your own D's b-day but you'll call hers?" he said, " i didn't miss my D's " I said, "you missed N14's". he of course didn't remember and I said, "never mind, it doesn't matter" and we dropped the subject.
How can he talk so freely to me about OW and her girls. The other day he told me their names.
WTH?!?!?!?
M41 H42 D17 Adopted N14 M22 T24 "Bomb" 4/07 Sep 8/07 Admitted OW 11/07(only to me) OW back 12/4/07 PA on off thru 7/08 says done w/OW but not coming home 8/08 D final 7/09 Moving on and up!!
