If anybody on this board needs a smack upside their head with a 2x4 its your H. Is he in the running for president of the DAM's club of America. DC was his chance to shine, prove to you that he is the man of your dreams and show you a rocking good time and he blows it. He lets you guys fall right back into the same routine that made you move out in the first place. UUGGGHHHH!
Have you ever thought about having him read DB or DR it seems these books are more for him than you. I would normaly say not to but he needs to GAL, kite flying, come on with all the great sports and hobbies out there he suggests kite flying. And then you do more research on the subject than him. Pathetic.
I don't know what to tell you to do. I wish I could talk to him and tell him what an idiot he is being. He needs to be posting here more than you. Not that I want you to leave just that I could help him alot more than you because I don't know how to get through to him. You keep extending the olive branch and he uses it for fire wood. I truely hope he wakes up soon either in MC or CC. Your a hell of a woman Bridge to be putting this much effort into it, I hope you get what you want out of all of this.