Thanks for the feedback, guys.

Kerry, my husband still claims no romantic feelings for OW and I do my best to explain why so many people have thought they are involved and why -- even if there is no 'romantic' connection -- I have felt like a third wheel, like they've crossed boundaries, the inappropriate nature of him turning to her about very important issues in our marriage rather than turning to me, etc. Has it sunk in? I don't know...

Oh, and I haven't been kayaking for awhile. I've been so consumed with my stoooopid marital problems! Blecky.

Last edited by girlfromipanema; 08/20/08 11:46 PM.
M: 37
H: 36
Married: Aug 13, 2004
Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008
Reconciled: September 2008
Current: Ambivalence