We know what you mean about keeping thoughts under control. I STILL have trouble with the OM thoughts. Just think if you started a real relationship with B how bad the thoughts would be. You would always wonder if you did everything to save your marriage. Don't do it. No calls. I mean it!!!! That means no answering or calling.
There's nothing wrong with not doing much if you enjoy that. Sitting home, reading a book, watching tv, sitting on the porch with an iced tea, etc. NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT! As long as you are not moping around, letting yourself "go". Think about what you could do that would make you smile and do it. It can be WHATEVER you want that to be, not what you THINK it should be.
I agree with everyone about seeing if s14 would like to hang at home. Sounds like fun.
As for the school meetings......I agree with Puppy. Look good and smell good and have plans for afterward. If you have the kids make plans with perhaps that guy you were talking about with the same age kids, if you don't have the kids be vague and say you have plans if she asks. Your plans may be to go to the bookstore and browse, but plans it will be.
I like your long posts, h4h. It helps me see how to help you. You give us a window to look in at your life.
Keep us posted. We are here for you. Stay away from the single ladies. Keep praying.
