hi - Ok thanks for that. I needed a plan. I think i get a little confused with communication. I have a small business with which H helps on a late night due to some unsavory teenagers that hang around. I dont want that to stop but do you think i can continue this and use it as am oppotunity to see that I am GAL ? Even though i am not. I do avoid conversations on marriage all the time - to the point of hanging up on the phone because I dont want to hear him say that it is over. So thats easy to avoid. Will keep updating through next 2 weeks. Think i will organise a star chart for myself HaHa
