I did not expect that...I agree with Addie though. He's still in a fog. I assume you will carry on with your plan to take D to college and leave H to pack up everything?
The only thing I can think of clearly is now YOU get to be the OW.
You've come a long way and we are all so very proud of you!
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*