Thinking of biting the bullet

[ACJ]

thanks BM.
It's actually MIL who has squirreled away money - in Hs name. As such they are legally his assests and I have notified my L of this. This is why he was spitting feathers on Sunday. I don't want her money but if H and I had stayed together my chilren and I would have benefitted from that money as things are at the moment we will not. That is why is has been brought out in the open. I just want my house without having to buy H out of it.

I've spent all day trying to contact S16. He gets his exam results tomorrow. I eventually got him about 5pm. I asked him what time he can collect his results from school and said I would meet him there. He told me H would be there so I asked him why that meant I couldn't be too. He said there wasn't a reason so we made arrangements.

About half an hour ago he TMd me saying H was not very happy that I was going and would I please stay away. I refused. I said I had every right to be there and that I had no intention of fighting with H. I also pointed out that it was time that H remembered that he was a grown up and should put our children's best interests first. He then sent me a TM saying in that case he would go by himself. I am still going to turn up (as I suspect that is what H will be doing). As I pointed out to S16 I've invested a lot of time and love into him and wild horses won't keep me away.

How dare H continue to try and force me out of my own son's life like this.

Earlier on this evening D18 fell out with H again. She has tonsillitus and told her that she hadn't. Apparently due to the fact that he suffered with this condition until he was about 20 (which I knew) he is the world expert. She told him that the healthcare professionals she works with ( a pharmacist and a nurse) had both looked at her throat independently and said it looked like tonsillitus (and I concurred) but it seems he had his arrogant head on and told her that she (and they) were wrong. She got up and walked out. She is seeing the Dr in the morning so we will see. She certainly has white exudate on her throat but 'Dr' H said they were blisters!

I love my H very much but the longer this goes on the more toxic his R with me and our children is becoming. That can't be good for any of us.