I think your reply to her email was perfect. It was so sweet that it gave me the chills when I read it. Of course, this is coming from me and not the WAW. Give her what she wants. She doesn't want you to talk her out of leaving, don't. DO NOT give her any thing to complain about as far as YOU are concerned. Give her what she's asking for. Eventually, she'll see that she's STILL not happy. And, she won't be able to blame it on you anymore. You can be her friend, but please make sure you give her lots of space. Let her drown in her space. This isn't going to be what she thought it would be. She needs to find that out on her own.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."