Hi Rob again. Just wanted to add that although my husband suspected he was being lied to over the past years he kind of wanted to stay married. He believed he could handle the truth and that it was the lying that was blocking us. He truely believed this with all his heart. Soooooo i opened up and told him the truth and it was all down hill from there. I am not sure i would recommend to anyone to follow my footsteps. I would say that being honest from the get go advisable but if your not then think hard.
I know you feel that admittance is what you need to push forward. Be careful, you may not know how you will feel. Better to put a line under it and move forward, dont look back.
