Hi Rob - Thanks for advise. I dont feel I am in early days as the first discovery was 4 years ago. It has only been 4 months though since i came clean. Perhaps he is in early shock with that.
it seems the harder I try in marriage the further away he goes. I need to get him to a position where he believes the marriage and family are worth fighting for. Once i am there I am prepared to do all that it takes to rebuild trust etc.
As I live in New Zealand i cannnot get hold of the Divorce busting books although i will try Amazon.
