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Red, you like to keep us hanging don't you?...and?


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Sawks...you CAN'T post that and not say what is going on.

SPILL MAN DAMMIT!!!!

BTW, she is feeling like you don't need her anymore...


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

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He did this a couple of days ago too...evil man!


Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*

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LOL my bad, i mentioned it in an email this morning, i got no reply, i will mention it in person soon.

You think she thinks I am doing fine without her?

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Yes.


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

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She's jealous of that part of your life...She's thinking WTF?


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Originally Posted By: JenInVen
She's jealous of that part of your life...She's thinking WTF?


How so... just curious is all. jealous that I have a life?

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Despite the fact that she wants you gone...she is jealous that you are improving yourself w/o her, jealous that you have a life that doesn't include her, jealous that you aren't pining over her.

You are giving her what she thought she wanted and now that she doesn't have to fight you on it you have taken back some of the control. You have turned the tables on her, so of course she is going to act weird/jealous/angry. You switched things up in a big way.


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She's jealous because you are happy with or without her. In fact, you are thriving.


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I see that, it just came suddenly, peace for a longtime, then poof the last 2 days she went off the deep end, after the sink broke, i got mad, but it didn't last very long, i decided, ahh it's just a sink, it can be replaced. She wanted me gone so bad, she got her wish. I am doing fantastically , poeple i speak with mention " how do u make it all look so easy?" ..

i just keep doing what i do, man the gym is such a peaceful feeling even if it does hurt, and i make grunting sounds LOL

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