So glad to hear from you. You are going to be fine. Your house may be a little messier but you and the kids are going to be great. Do you have a timer on your washer? If so put a load in the morning and have it set to wash about an hour before you get home, then put in the dryer. Make a game with the kids with folding and putting away after dinner. Do the same kind of thing with the dishwasher, have it run overnight, or over the day if that works better.
You are going to find a routine that works for you. I am right there with you, trying to make a go of it with 4 little people that call me Mom.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory