KerryK..thanks for coming aboard. I hear you. Sounds like you and I had some common decisions to make.

It is still hard to accept at times...even the thought that I am the filer...that after telling my W that I would never destroy our marriage, that, I started the process. But, like Frank_d, my W was destroying my spirit.

I meet with the law guardian today for the first time. I'm scared, but, it is something I am required to do. So be it.

To Bill...thanks for coming by. The way I am now with my job..I am miserable. I need my office manager..but she disrespects me and sometimes I think SHE is bipolar. The new job, although will keep me away during the day...would eliminate getting called out in the middle of the night...allow me to come home on a Friday and be left alone until Monday AM...and..it may actually make me stronger in front of the judge (if I get the job). In reality, the likelihood of me getting full custody, IMO, are pretty low....being a man and a professional in the state of NY. We'll see.

Please...wish me luck...and a prayer for my family. FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;