Last night I let myself call W. It was to discuss a financial matter. We started to discuss it while she was still at my house and she was starting to get agitated. I said goodbye and let an hour go bye then texted her a question about it. She responded favorably so I called her and we discussed it. It was stressful and a bit rough some times but we didn't discuss the R at all.
This morning W calles me excitedly to let me know she got a job. This pretty much aleviates most of the stress from last nights conversation. And she was super excited. I am happy for her and I showed it.
We also discussed some custody arrangements but made no plans. She is interested in having the kids overnight and eventually transitioning to a 50/50 arrangement.
Me:34 W:31 d's 5 & 10 M: 5 years, T: 8, Bomb1 3/8/08,#2:3/28/08 Asked 4 D:4/19/08, discovered PA 5/8/08,W moved out 6/30/08 W pregnant by OM: 2/17/08