Any kind of R talk (especially sex) for us is a sore subject. As unbelievable as it sounds, one question can set her off and she can hold onto anger like no one else I know. So yes, a 3 day window for her to cool down might not be enough time. I just know her well enough that it would be a chance anyway.

OK here's what I'll do, I will take that chance and hope that she won't be upset. Keep it simple and not open the whole thing up again, at least not right now. With D in school next week I could take an afternoon or a morning off and sit with her to talk about what she thinking about so far.

I know she loves me. I was talking to her this morning on the phone and she even told me that she loves me. She even said it first! She rarely ever says ILY unless she is responding to me saying it first.

DQ, thanks for shaking some sense back into me. \:\)

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